Last night was the most intense, largest music festival I've ever experienced. Grant Carter, a very skilled musician himself, Sarah J., Brittany, and Erin Hong and I picked up some sparkling wine, enough beer to sustain us until the 7 AM end time of the concerts, and some Guinness, as a treat when I can still legally buy it. We were planning on meeting up with Erin McCabe, and her sister who just arrived in Paris for a short vacation, Brian and Henry, and Yifan and his roommates. Knowing the crazy scattering of all of our apartments and dorms throughout Paris, I'm not sure why we thought that'd be successful whatsoever. We, living a seven minute walk from the Eiffel Tower, heard many of the bigger bands would be playing there, so offered everyone to come to our apartment before. Doesn't sound like the best idea after the noise complaint we received from our Canadian neighbor the other day. Luckily, everyone could not get their plans in time for us to meet up. Sarah, Grant, Brittany, and I were getting far to antsy to be missing the biggest music festival of the year, so we left by eight o' clock. Probably for the best, as the streets of Paris were crowded and it would have been possible to keep track of our group. We saw at least eight different performances with small crowds of people on our way to the Eiffel Tower. There were all sorts of genres differing from street corner to corner in French and English. We finally made it to the Eiffel Tower, but was rather disappointed as the two different performances there were just the Native American wind instruments we'd been hearing every time we walk through the Chatelet and Montparnasse metro stations. Grant probably would have made some serious euros if he'd brought his guitar and broke out his classics before he was dismissed from the Eiffel Tower by the police a few weeks prior. Really cut into his 80 - 100 euro a night income..We enjoyed the glimmering Eiffel Tower sparkles for a few minutes before mapping out a strategic tour of Paris. We made the best decision of experiencing the metro line 10 when it stays open all night long. It typically closes at 2 AM on the weekends, and reopens at 5:30 AM..perfect timing for those all night clubs! We finally reached our destination after being on a crowded metro train with shouting Parisians and Americans singing the best French songs and downing their whiskey and schweppes and seeing each person literally carrying their own bottle of rose wine. Where else rather than the Saint Michel area by the Sorbonne, where ALL the students would be gathering, to go for the greatest music festival of all time. When we finally reached it, we searched in the crowd for Marshall and his roommate Cameron, who were assets to our group as they were able to lead us to a few excellent finds in the crowded streets and as they were boys, they were able to deter many of the drunken men around us. Brittany and I were definitely getting our dance on in the streets of Paris. We've finally become more authentic European dancers, dancing delicately and calmly by ourselves, rather than up and close with a dance partner, like they do back in America. Really helps get less stares, especially when you're dancing in the damp streets of Paris.
Always better to stay in control, especially in a foreign country, and at the fete de la musique. The festival we've been warned about for pick-pocketing and craziness throughout all the streets. It was craziness indeed. Drunk Parisians we befriended at the bar trying to lure us to another bar when the men in our group decide it's time for us to head out. Only 4 AM. Typical, right? Even with the metros open it took us about an hour to get home as we still did have our last Art History class at 9:30 AM. Then the crazy stories started ensuing. Travis, Dan, Jacob, and Conrad called us begging to come over. They said they'd explain once they get here. Weird when a group of strong college boys don't feel safe in their own apartment. Apparently their roommate, Yifan, was left behind that night in his apartment and must have felt a little rejected for the violent act he pulled upon Dan when they returned late that night. All the pieces began falling together when we heard the intensity of the situation from the boys fist hand involved and the intensity of the emails from CEA the following morning. It clearly made sense as to why he wanted to meet up so badly with my group, but it's strange he didn't come to our apartment when we invited him, considering how close it was to where we all wanted to head for the festival. I don't feel like Yifan was bullied or left out of the group. His roommates may have had too much to drink and got lost in the music forgetting about any worries. It happens all the time with my group when we venture around the city..except we're obviously more cognizant of our fellow girlfriends in the group and making sure we're together as boys are boys, less often the victims. It's scary to think that someone who I've grown so close with in Paris and Brugges is capable of hiding a knife in his room and threatening another friend with it over something so seemingly petty. Reminds me of the infamous case in which a the girl was killed by her drunken roommates during an international study abroad program in Florence. It's scary how such seemingly innocent people can get to such a level where they need to resort to violence. It's scary that Yifan could scare his close friends so seriously. Horrible ending to such an epic trip in Paris. Yifan sent me a message at 1:30 PM today and I was shocked to hear from him. He seemed so casual and calm telling me how he sorry he was for not being able to meet up with my roommates and I, how he'll tell us about how "it got real" last night, and how he'll tell me about it tomorrow. Ending all of this simple, seemingly caring message with a smiley face. It's crazy how he tries to play off such serious situations, but he still feels the need to let anyone who will listen know something is going on so you'll ask him more about it. I think he wants the attention and will do anything he can to get noticed. I don't know if he realized the immensity of what he tried to pull. I truly think he is unsure of himself and is searching for friends for reassurance. It hurts me to not be able to respond in fear of becoming involved in the situation legally. The legal system is so complex and different here in Paris. It would not be worth it to risk. The responses from the CEA coordinators really scare me informing me to forward on all contact Yifan tries to make and how to not agree to meet up with him nor to let him into my apartment under any circumstances. It's apparently for both of our safety. I still can't grasp the immenseness of the situation, especially as we were planning on getting together that night. I want to and do feel sorry for the situation Yifan jumped into so quickly, but he was hoarding a knife in his room and attempted to use it against another friend. I really need to get my mind of the intensity of last night and the misinterpretations of actions and words that clearly occurred. It seems like his wealth was too much to handle sending him to his downfall, like many great celebrities. Hopefully, he's able to learn from this and to have severe consequences to his actions. Money cannot always buy your friends and happiness, but I feel like he has not been able to realize that as it's been seemingly successful for his thus far. I am definitely praying for his well being tonight and that he's able to get the help that he needs.